Growing pressure on Bentley

Male abuse survivors: Critics say province’s plan to help will actually ‘revictimize’ people who have suffered horrible ordeals.

The London Free Press

Last Updated: October 29, 2010 9:20am

By Randy Richmond

 Chris Bentley (QMI Agency file photo)

Chris Bentley (QMI Agency file photo)

 

Ontario Attorney General Chris Bentley is facing growing pressure from across the province to halt a controversial plan for male survivors of sexual abuse.

Both the lead commission counsel and an expert advisor for the Cornwall Public Inquiry on abuse — which recommended how the government should develop services — told The Free Press the province’s plan is flawed.

“It wasn’t what was intended,” lead counsel Peter Engelmann told The Free Press. “It comes up short.”

The Ontario government has to delay plans until male survivors get a chance to weigh in, added London psychiatrist Peter Jaffe.

“In the London area, we have hit a brick wall,” said Jaffe, an advisor to the inquiry.

Opposition politicians are also starting to take notice of the plan, which many male survivors criticize for ignoring their wishes and potentially giving money to the agencies that wronged them in the past.

The government has given agencies across Ontario until Nov. 1 to apply for $2 million to set up and operate for 15 months a province-wide crisis service, and four regional counselling networks for male survivors of abuse.

Only existing non-profit agencies operated by boards of directors will qualify to be lead regional agencies, shutting out many fledging support groups and counselling services run by men for male survivors.

Some Catholic-based agencies have applied for funding, alarming survivors who were victims of Catholic priests.

“It seems imperative that if justice is going to be done, the victims of abuse have to be players in determining how the money is going to be spent,” NDP justice critic Peter Kormos said Thursday.

Tory justice critic Ted Chudleigh said the government is revictimizing people who have already suffered.

“He (Bentley) won’t listen to male survivors. It is unfathomable he won’t do it,” said Chudleigh.

In Southwestern Ontario, a flashpoint for the controversy, a leading sexual assault agency in London is abandoning plans to join the provincial effort.

“The province has not provided enough time for consultation, especially with male survivors,” Louise Pitre, executive director of the Sexual Assault Centre of London, said.

Pitre said she’s written to Bentley seeking a delay in the process to allow men the chance to direct development of services.

But Bentley said Thursday the province will push ahead with plans.

“Some men have been waiting much of their lives for services,” he said. “We need to get those services out as quickly as possible.”

Some survivors also object to women-only agencies getting the money, saying these agencies ignored calls for help in the past.

The province’s plan differs from December 2009 recommendations of the Cornwall inquiry, which recommended the province take time to study the best way to develop services and listen to male survivors before doing anything.

“The commissioner very much wanted survivors to have an opportunity to speak,” Engelmann said.

“The hope was this would be studied and together with studying it, there would be a public awareness campaign.”

London survivor and advocate John Swales has a meeting scheduled for Friday with Bentley.

“It is unanimous across the board the province has not followed the recommendations of the Cornwall inquiry,” Swales said.

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Comments
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Samuel Lount
October 29th 2010, 4:51pm
That’s classic. Funds to help abused males going to Catholic agencies. Edgar Allen Poe couldn’t write stuff like this.
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hey Chris
October 29th 2010, 12:10pm
We definately need the services they are long overdue however allowing the women-only agencies to receive the money is the wrong thing to do as they ignored the calls to help men in in the past and shame on them. lets push ahead but do it right and put a process in place that indeed helps the men.
How about we close all the separate facilities and fund help for all humans and not discriminate based on gender. Hmm what a novel idea !
why they ever felt women deserved the funding more than men is crazy, if you need help you need help and there should be no discrimination.
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jason stevens
October 29th 2010, 10:49am
Peter Jaffe is a psychologist, not a psychiatrist – I have emailed the reporter.
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DB
October 29th 2010, 10:39am
Oh, shut up! What the goverment should be doing is dumping the money into the judicial system and put the people who committed these offences in prison. The way that the government is going right now this province is going to come crashing down in 5 years unless we vote these SOB’s out.

I am a victim myself of a brutal attack back in 2000. I GOT OVER IT. I got no justice, no peace for 8 years. Finally, one day I got over it. I did not get any help. I did it MYSELF. If I can do it alone. YOU CAN TOO!

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Mike Mcgaw Sr
October 29th 2010, 10:36am
I realize the atrocitiies done to native children on reservations should be brought into the light and dealt with..but they are not alone. What about other survivours of sexual abuse??
I was one of the many children sexually abused in government run training schools, something never investigated. We have had to live our lives scarred from this abuse in shame and silence..
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Brenda Rowe
October 29th 2010, 10:16am
This isn’t the fault of our current premier or the political party he represents. The Province of Ontario has been casting people to the wolves since the First Nations people were put on reservations.
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JB
October 29th 2010, 9:53am
Lets hope for the sake of the province that all these items are remembered come election time and McGuilty and his buddies are removed from power.

He has yet to get ANYTHING right.

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B
October 29th 2010, 9:45am
How come some victims of childhood sexual molestation get a large lumpsum settlement payment when others have to justify their right to receive social assistance benefits?
That’s not fair. Are girls and catholics worth more then everyone else?
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rob
October 29th 2010, 9:43am
Peter Laffe advises about male support? What a joke. Peter Laffes history proves he rather support sexual discriminate against men.
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patmcmillan
October 29th 2010, 9:31am
Another fiasco by McGuinty- is he EVER going to get it right? How much longer do we have to tolerate this incompetent , spendthrift, soul killing government?
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C
October 29th 2010, 9:23am
The male survivors of sexual abuse MUST be heard and allowed to weigh in on these decisions.
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